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Whenever I see someone pushing a baby or toddler in a stroller I think to myself, "when is that grown woman going to stop playing "house" and get a life" hahahah

Added: October 2, 2017
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Hey everybody! Including the owner of this website.
I really don't get the sense of having kids. Does it have to make me happy? It's stressfull and i have to give up everything in my life, i hate people so much, who think the only goal in life is to be married and having children, seriously. I hate them, if it wouldn't be illegal, I would kill em'. Kids are annoying. I never wanna have one. The only joy of life doesn't come from human relationships, it'S just a waste of time and i don't see a sense in that.
I never wanna have a boyfriend or kids.
I like beeing alone.


Added: October 1, 2017
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I came across your website and just had to say hello. I'm attached so I'm not emailing about coffee/date/sex/etc but had to let you know, that I know, you're not that crazy. If you noticed, I said attached, not married. Been that way with the same guy for over 20 years (I'm 47 - or something like that I really don't pay too much attention to my real age, just how old I feel). We have no kids by choice (we do have two dogs though, but they don't hold us back). Hell, my friends gave me a wall sign that reads, "Pets welcome, children must be on a leash." Our finances are still separate to this day, and with no kids, we buy whatever we want! And, I meet all your other criteria. So the moral of the story is...unfortunately, I'm already taken (I'm even shorter 5'3" and been called conceited and selfish too for similar reasons lol) but I guarantee there's more like me so good luck in your search!

Barb


Added: September 1, 2017
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I LIKE IT! like your shirt too!

The CF Hero…. that would be awesome. You need to lead a CF march or something.. and a chant - “Take back the right...to live your own life” (joking, but that WOULD be cool).

To give you some insight -
I’m introverted, socially awkward, and I hate babies and kids… I even watch anime... and have been to a furry convention! (sounds like the last person anyone would want to date, so many ‘bad’ qualities!) I’m not unattractive or anything, at least I don’t think so! But yeah… The kid thing was a weird topic to bring up in dating. I had so many relationships fall apart because of the kid issue.

However, there are more people that don’t like kids than you may think. There seems to be more open-mindedness nowadays.

Now… I'm married to someone who ALSO doesn’t want kids. If I found someone, so can you (via permanent relationship, partnership, whatever)! You’re a dapper gent, no reason you cant!

I have many friends who don’t want kids, male and female - and many of them are married or partnered now (no kids on the way for them.. ever)

A sense of humor is one of the most valuable things that somone can have!

M


Added: August 28, 2017
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First i sincerely want to thank for creating such a website, this is very special what you're trying to accomplish. I am very delighted to be a member and most importantly be part of the true culture of not having kids. No bullshit meter to read here. In the end hope i find my princess on your website once again thank you for your vison and hard work.

IdoNOTwantKids reply: Thanks sooooooooooooo much for the kind words. It is SINCERELY appreciated. Enjoy the site and please do spread the word. Because the site is 100% Free, there is NO money for advertising so it is strictly word of mouth... and the one thing this site needs is a LOT more users.

In fact, I JUST started a GoFundMe page so feel free to spread the word about that also:
https://www.gofundme.com/IdoNOTwantKids

I'm trying to raise $666 to support the site. So far, not a single person has donated.. which is kind of what I expected.. but if nothing else, perhaps others will learn about the site. See, there is always a plan B.

Best regards & enjoy!


Added: April 18, 2017
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I want to applaud the creator of this website for having the courage and devoting his own resources toward the creation of this wonderful site! I can foresee a time in the near future where I may need to join this site in order to find someone compatible with me. It's unfortunate that only about 5% of the population does not want kids, especially with the growing overpopulation problem on this planet. I can only hope that more people realize it's okay not to want to have kids and stop procreating solely due to external, societal pressures. The world would be a much better place if people who aren't suited for parenthood stop having children and realize/accept their limitations.

IdoNOTwantKids reply: Wow! I normally enjoy hate mail more than favorable mail, but I just had to SINCERELY thank you for your kind words. You concisely stated the entire issue brilliantly (i.e. "stop procreating solely due to external, societal pressures";).

Many thanks again... but I hope for your sake, you never have to utilize www.IdoNOTwantKids.com because it is admittedly incredibly difficult to find CHILDFREE folks.

Sincerely,

Christopher M. Puzzele, Esq.
Creator of www.IdoNOTwantKids.com


Added: March 29, 2017
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I don't agree the way this website it's build, there's lots of things who it's not necessary like the bullshit thing.

It showed me only 7members in America and 4 in Uk....I thought more people will be in this website, also it says 7people visited my profile but in the "who has viewed me" it says one. It's unfair to upload only one pic and the size of the picture....no comment....I can carry on but I will stop here.

If this men who I texted don't answer I will remove my profile.

Thanks.

IdoNOTwantKids reply: FYI: I just did a search in the USA and found 4,296 profiles so chances are you did something differently. There were a LOT more profiles,but I constantly delete the fakes/BS.

As for your other complaints..no problem... the site is 100% free. If you like the site, feel free to use it. If not, feel free to remove your profile.

If somebody can make better graphics/improvements to the site, then PLEASE do so. Since this the site is 100% free, and actually costs me money to run, I unfortunately don't have the financial wherewithal to hire people to make the site how every person wants it. Nonetheless, if somebody out here is familiar with php/websites/etc, then PLEASE do feel free to make contributions to the site.

The whole point of this site is to TRY and help the childfree community have a place.. I only created the site because I could NOT find a better alternative anywhere - unfortunately... but 99% of the time, I only get complaints and criticism and zero appreciation even though its costing me money to run... It's a real shame but such is life. I'm a full time practicing attorney. Computers are merely a hobby. I'm actually shocked that I'm even able to create/run the site...

Best regards,

www.IdoNOTwantKids.com
:)


Added: March 3, 2017
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I've seen your ads since 2003. I've even gone on a date with you. I don't think your approach is working. It's actually quite off-putting (including your in-person date behavior), even to someone like me who doesn't have or want kids. I think you are limiting yourself. What if you met a woman who has grown kids who don't live at home? There are lots of men who are similar to you, but they don't advertise it. You have been running a negative marketing campaign for over a decade. It's not working. Presenting yourself in a way that will appeal and entice women, not turn them off immediately, is not about being dishonest or putting a mask on, it's about making a good first impression. If you were interviewing a potential employee, and he came in with greasy hair, crumpled old t-shirt and torn jeans, just because he's being himself, you wouldn't hire him, would you? The qualities about you that you perceive as being less than desirable, will be overlooked by a woman who falls in love with you for your other positive inner or outer qualities. But not if you throw out all the negatives right there in her face. Chris, you really need to dig deep and reevaluate what it is that you really want and what would be the best approach to get it. I suggest seek professional help from a life coach or counselor.

IdoNOTwantKids reply: Suzy: So in your opinion, I need to seek "professional help from a life coach or counselor" based on my goofy personal ad? In my humble opinion, that is comical and just shows our incompatibility.

As for our "date" (presumably over coffee), I unfortunately don't remember it. It must have been quite a few years ago but indeed, I've met hundreds of women for coffee and made lots of new friends so I'm sure we did meet. I can see why we apparently didn't keep in touch. Some people get me, and some people think I need "professional help." But no worries whatsoever. That is what makes people unique. :)

As for me throwing "all the negatives right there in her face," I completely disagree. Firstly, what did I say that was sooooooo negative about myself? That I use coupons, am frugal, childfree or going bald? Oh golly gee. Big friggin' deal. Is that really sooooooo horrible? Not to me. That is simply me being me. Plus, if you can't LAUGH at yourself, then who can you laugh at? Furthermore, the last thing I want to do is waste anyone's time. And call me crazy, but perhaps that is why there is a 50%+ divorce rate... because people aren't simply honest and upfront and instead treat dating like a "job interview." The fact is, the problem is not getting a date. The problem is getting a date with people that are compatible with me and I really don't want to waste their time or mine in the process.

Hence, although my personal ad is causing many to think I need "professional help," the fact is, it is actually doing PRECISELY what I intended it to do... weeding out the 99.99% of the people that simply don't "get" me. :)

But heck, if you think I need "professional help" based on that goofy ad, then you must really think I'm nuts based on some of my other preposterous attempts to get a date, such as my infamous DoNOTdateMe website. Here is the link:

http://www.puzzele.com/dumped/questions/dontdateme.htm

Best regards.


Added: February 23, 2017
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Thank you for creating this site for childfree people. As a 26-year-old woman, many people still question my decision not to procreate/adopt. I joined yesterday. Sadly, there are not enough site members in my area.

I was going to leave my profile up and see what happens, but an incident from today was icing on the disappointment cake. My first and only message was a very nasty one from an out of state man (68, aka old enough to be my dad/grandpa). My crime: My profile stated that I do not want to reveal my number of sexual partners.

It's demoralizing to notice the lack of men, let alone childfree men, between the ages of 25 and 40, then STILL get unsolicited nasty messages like on the mainstream dating sites. None of this is your fault, but it is what it is. Thank you for trying, and legitimizing our voices through your work. People like you help reduce the stigma toward peaceful, alternative lifestyles. To be honest, I believe the site is funny and clever. I may rejoin in the future, but right now I would like to take a break.

Thank you for your time,

Laura


Added: February 23, 2017
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I've seen your ad before and you have such a sweet and entertaining personality, I had to say hello. I did look at your blog, (a really long time ago) and if I remember correctly, you were a very good son. And an unusually strong attraction to a certain van! I grew up in Union County, and lived in the UK, and PA, then here in the Tucson area. I'm reading this tonight, so you are already gone. Please feel free to call me next time you're in town, if you'd like to have dinner. I know a really good. cheap Italian place. I use coupons, too. Krazycouponlady.com is the best!

Added: December 29, 2016
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