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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Is IdoNOTwantKids worth it?
Submitted by Justin <ninetailfox89@hotmail.com> on 04/Oct/2010 in reply to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Is IdoNOTwantKids worth it? posted by db on 28/Sep/2010
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I am liking this site more and more. You can post without signing up to get a feel for it, and it's free. I wanted to make sure it was legit first of all. Seems that way.
That being said...it is soul crushing, I know. I've been in the same pit as you all my life Mike. I'm 21, without ever having had a date, or even a kiss. People keep saying to take a break, and these people usually are not single. It's hard for them to get it. And on top of this, childfree is hard to come by. I respect the beliefs of others, so don't jump on me anyone, but I am also an atheist and would like to see the same in a partner. right away you scrape away most women on the face of the earth. Like someone here said, I'd rather be happy (not, but...) and single than in a relationship and unhappy. And this is coming from one of the most butt-hurt on-and-off bitter singles you can imagine. I admit I'm bitter, and realize: there is nothing wrong with that as long as you don't go and abuse someone over it. It's normal to feel this way I am realizing more and more. But seeing this site did something that hasn't happened in a while. It has given me hope. I say, if you have a gun to your head with 5/6 bullets left, and the mob boss will let you off scot-free if you get the blank and kill you if you refuse, take the chance (oh metaphors). Some hope is better than none at all. The thought behind this site is a Gem that reaches out to a minority, it scrapes the last bit of peanut butter out of the jar (childfree singles) and puts it all on one piece of bread. I say...at least keep it open as a lifeline. If you find love elsewhere, great. But it never hurts to outsource your love search to the internet. I hate to say it and hate to hear it, but push forward. And if anyone here, when I join (probably same UN as email), even if they don't want to date me, wants someone to talk to who's been there, and done that, and has *felt* that...well, my email is right there. I hope I helped a little
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