1.   We meet in person at my home office in Hillsborough, NJ.  I offer evening and weekend hours. 

Note: I have an office in my house devoted for this matchmaking business.  During the weekday, I am a practicing lawyer.  Hence, that is how I can provide weekend and evening hours at such reasonable rates.  Remember, dating should be fun.  Unlike virtually every other dating service on the planet, mine was not necessarily created for profit. Lets face it. I ain't going to get rich by only charging $200. However, it does help weed out those that are serious and those that are merely playing games.

2.   We discuss EXACTLY what you are looking for in brutal detail.

Be warned.  This will not be the typical sugar coated meet and greet (i.e.   you merely searching for an attractive person with a nice personality and a good sense of humor.  Everybody obviously wants that.).  Instead, I want to know exactly what you want and how you feel about certain sensitive issues.   Examples are as follows:

Why am I asking these sensitive questions?  Simple. From my experience as a divorce lawyer, the evolution of my preposterous www.SheDumpedMe.net website, the worldwide media attention in over a dozen countries received therefrom, the 500+ women I met for coffee and the over eighteen thousand (18,000) communications I've had with different women and/or personal ads, the biggest causes of divorce are sex, money and children.  Therefore, these issues should be discussed immediately.  The problem is most people are understandably reluctant to discuss these issues. In fact, many matchmaking services and relationship coaches suggest you not discuss these important issues until the relationship has progressed. Some dont even broach these issues until after marriage! The flaw with this approach is these are deal-breaker issues wherein you are wasting time unnecessarily.   This is where I come in.   I WILL ask these necessary questions that people ordinarily won't ask.  Note:  Obviously you do not have to answer a question if you don't feel comfortable, but you should.

3.   If you decide to become a member and pay the fee of two hundred dollars ($200) for me to try and find your match, I will thereafter ask to see your drivers license and social security number. Immediately prior to scheduling a date, I will do a Statewide Felony, Misdemeanor and Criminal Traffic Conviction search from 1980 to the present. Legal Disclaimer: The Public Records and commercially available data sources utilized to perform the Statewide Felony, Misdemeanor and Criminal Traffic Conviction background check might have errors. Data is sometimes entered poorly, processed incorrectly and is unfortunately not always free from defect. Accordingly, information might not be definitively accurate. Before relying on any data, it should be independently verified.

4.   Once I find your match (who will also have had a background check done on them), I will contact both parties and arrange for you both to meet over a friendly cup of coffee. It will be located at the Starbucks Coffee nearest to the female's zip code but at a mutually convenient date/time that both parties are available.

Note:  I have absolutely no affiliation with Starbucks Coffee whatsoever. The reason why I require both parties to meet at Starbucks Coffee is because they are located throughout the State, they are always in a public place, it is easy to make an early exit if the date isn't going well, and most importantly, it removes the unnecessary stress, anxiety and competitive nature typically associated with first dates.  Unfortunately, first dates are beginning to turn into competitions, and I am avoiding this issue entirely.  By me dictating that all initial dates occur at the nearest Starbucks Coffee, it eliminates all of these problems.  The point is not where you go, but who you are with.

5.   After the initial Starbucks Coffee date is concluded, neither party will exchange information.  Instead, both parties will get back in touch with me and let me know what they thought of the other person, and most importantly, if I am authorized to release to the other person their contact information.   This avoids the uncomfortable situation at the end of the date of whether you want to see the other person again.  I will ONLY release the contact information if BOTH persons authorize me to do so.

6.   My services are now concluded.  Hopefully you are madly in love and/or desire to see the person again.  Nonetheless, if you think I did an impressive job of trying to find precisely what you were searching for, but want me to try again, I will only charge you one hundred dollars ($100) for the next time or any time thereafter, particularly since I won't have to do another background check, another meeting at my office will be unnecessary, and most importantly, I truly want to find your match.   Obviously if you are dissatisfied with my matchmaking skills, you are certainly under no obligation to use my services again. Note: I know I only get one shot at trying to impress you. I realize that if I simply send you out on a date with somebody that doesn't fit your criteria, I will never see you again. Hence, it's in my best interest to carefully try and match you. This is far different from other matchmaking services wherein they charge several thousand dollars, require payment upfront and once they have your money, they have nothing to lose.