This website was initially created as a big GOOF but thereafter evolved into a great way to actually meet people. Unfortunately, I just haven't met that 'special someone' -- YET!
     
 

I'm searching for that 'special someone' for a long term relationship which will hopefully result in marriage. Worst case scenario, perhaps I'll make some new friends along the way and have some laughs.
     
  I do not drink, smoke, use drugs, and can't dance - so bars/clubs are not for me.
     
  I live in Somerset County, New Jersey, and work in Middlesex County, New Jersey.
     
  I am NOT interested in one night stands.
     
  I have never been married.  I have no Kids.
     
  Religion: Jewish & Catholic
    (Mom is Jewish.  Dad is Catholic.  I'm basically an omelet --  I celebrate whatever holiday entitles me to a gift and/or celebration) (he he he)
     
  Age:  35, Height: 5'5", Weight: 155
    (I've lost 30 pounds since getting dumped!  I now exercise and eat healthy - Most of the time.) 
     
  100% totally honest
     (When I'm NOT working that is - see occupation directly below.)
     
  Occupation: Lawyer
     
  Very driven/goal oriented.
     
  Favorite thing to do: LAUGH. If you can make me laugh, I'm happy - I don't care what we do for fun.  However, I'm always willing to try something new (i.e. I've tried sky diving, bungee jumping, ballooning, rafting, etc.). I am particularly interested in going places and doing things that I've never seen/done before.  I'm basically a big kid (except hairier & only slightly taller). 
     
  For more information about me, perhaps you should read how the media has described me:

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  Somebody that does NOT have or want kids.
     
  Sense Of Humor
    (If you like this website, you definitely have a sense of humor.) 
     
  99.99% reliable & trustworthy
    (Somebody that rarely cancels, keeps their word, does/accomplishes what they say they will and NEVER breaks a promise.)
     
  Spontaneity
    (It should not take weeks of preparation to meet for a 15 minute cup of coffee.)
     
  Career/Goal Oriented
     
  100% honest
     
  Religion: Any
     
  Height: Any
    (Ladies, if you are taller than me, which is VERY likely, cool! Unfortunately it seems most women prefer a taller guy.  BUMMER!  I thought 'size doesn't matter?' (he he he)
     
  Non smoker
     
  Age: Any
     
  The ability to talk about absolutely positively anything/everything without having to wait months to raise an issue
    (i.e. Do you want kids? Do we actually have to date six months before I can use a coupon in front of you? Etc.).
     
  Somebody who realizes there will inevitably be disagreements/differences in the relationship but who firmly believes and is absolutely committed to working things out - even if it takes numerous tries. 
    Note:  Obviously there are exceptions if the person does something wholly inexcusable such as cheats, abuses or some other heinous and/or immoral act wherein the person should NOT get a second chance.
     
     

 

Believe it or not...  

The website has gained media attention around the world including:  

  Africa 

  Asia 

  Australia 

  Belgium 

  Canada 

  China 

  France 

  India 

  Italy 

  Japan 

  Malaysia 

  New Zealand 

  Pakistan 

  Romania 

  Singapore 

  Spain 

  Switzerland

  USA

Local Media Attention Includes:

Fox News TV

Hillsborough Beacon (Front Page)

Strictly Somerset (Front Page)

Courier News (Front Page)

Home News (Twice)

USA Today

99.9 KTYD

94.9 Lite FM

101.9 Twister

91.8, 93.3 & 95.6 LAC Radio

Numerous Newspapers, Radio & Television From Around The World

 

 

* LET'S MEET FOR A FRIENDLY CUP OF COFFEE *

  Here is what I propose:  we meet in a public place (i.e.  Starbucks Coffee inside the Mall), simply as friends, and get a cup of coffee together - nothing more.  No pressure.  No date.  No safety concerns.  Afterwards, you can send me an email message IF you want to keep in contact.  At a minimum, we will both learn more in 15 minutes in person than countless email messages/phone calls.

I know my approach is a bit unorthodox/unromantic, but at least it works! Heck, the vast majority of people on the Internet spend a ridiculous amount of time emailing/chatting/calling wherein I discovered most people never actually meet afterwards anyway. You would be amazed at how many responses I get wherein women allegedly desire to have sex with me immediately, but when I suggest we simply meet for a friendly cup of coffee in a public place instead, they say they don't know me well enough yet. Wow! That must be some strong coffee! ;)

I skip all of that baloney and simply meet for a friendly cup of coffee.  If you are interested, send me an email. 


HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU!

 

shedumpedme@gmail.com